Musictime In Indonesia
| Step | What to Discuss | Why It Matters | |------|-----------------|----------------| | | Ask your partner what they specifically want (e.g., depth, speed, pressure) and what they absolutely do not want. | Guarantees consent and avoids surprises. | | Safe Word | Choose a clear, easily spoken word (e.g., “red”) and a “pause” word (e.g., “yellow”) for slower or more intense moments. | Provides an immediate stop signal if things become uncomfortable. | | After‑Care | Agree on what each of you needs after the session (cuddle, water, a warm shower, etc.). | Helps both partners feel cared for and reduces post‑play emotional dip. |