The "spoiling until ejaculation" motif implies a loss of control. The male subject is stripped of agency, not through pain or humiliation, but through overwhelming pleasure and attention. This reflects a specific strain of male fantasy: the desire to abdicate the responsibilities of the patriarchal role and return to a state of dependency where pleasure is provided unconditionally.
The "spoiling until ejaculation" motif implies a loss of control. The male subject is stripped of agency, not through pain or humiliation, but through overwhelming pleasure and attention. This reflects a specific strain of male fantasy: the desire to abdicate the responsibilities of the patriarchal role and return to a state of dependency where pleasure is provided unconditionally.