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It is crucial to note that there is no equivalent widespread curse for daughters. A daughter who transgresses is called “kurvë” directly (whore) and punished. The updated phrase “tu u qi kurvat me djem” is radical because it feminizes the sons to insult the father. It implies: Your sons have no masculine honor left; they are like women for sale. This is deeply misogynistic at its core, even when used to criticize bad parenting. Modern feminists in Tirana and diaspora have repurposed the phrase ironically: “Edhe djemtë bëhen kurva, por faji bie te babai.” (Even sons become whores, but the blame falls on the father.) tu u qi kurvat me djem updated
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